This month Susan is working on the second draft of her manuscript Kindergarten Mafia.

This is a breakthrough month for me. Three of my children’s stories are in the hands of editors. Most encouragingly, two of those stories were specifically requested. (Even if the answer turns out to be no, I would think of it as a ‘no of higher caliber.’) I received some very intelligent constructive criticism and encouragement from another agent regarding 2ManyCooks. And, mid-month, I attend the RWA National conference in Washington DC to pitch Brandie Sagadore and Kindergarten Mafia (and learn lots.)

I begin this month, however, with the sure knowledge that my girlfriends remain the most incredible source of inspiration, support and full flat-out fun.

Take, for example, my recent trip to the Okanagan for a long weekend with four dear friends. Sally runs a resort in the region (http://www.lakeside.bc.ca/) and she runs her home with the same relaxed hospitality. From the pictures below (that’s me, far left) it isn’t easy to spot the burdens and stresses life has thrown our way.

Susan, Georgina, Barb, Pat and Sally (Sally’s husband Paul is ‘the shadow.’)

It’s no wonder that the weekend brought us all a sense of joy and calm. When we’re together we have a safe place to unwind, laugh, be silly, shed a few tears and blab to our heart’s content.

A recent article in The Atlantic (http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200906/happiness) revealed the number one secret to happiness is friendship. For me, deep meaningful friendships allow a kind of unraveling, a stripping away to my authentic self. It’s a treat to be with people I know who honestly know me (and don’t let me get away with a thing). The effort is worth the reward.

As someone who spends her days in a writer coma I am constantly reminded of the E.M. Forster line to “Only connect.”

There is nothing, nothing, like the connection I have with my kindergarten friends, Barb, Sally and Georgina. Through them, I’ve been blessed to meet Pat who has a huge heart and a fearless emotional honesty. When we see each other we hold hands, hug one other and say “I love you.” I treasure these women. Our greetings and our farewells last a long time.

Drop a line about your closest friendships. I’d enjoy hearing

from you.

xoxo
Susan